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Instead choosing the more destructive path of thinking he knew everything (he said this a lot) making things up himself and rolling with some wild story using it as an excuse to be purposefully rude, spiteful and hurtful.
He could have just asked and discussed like adults. He loved the drama too much and wouldn’t back down as this means loosing face. We know its bad but exercise free will as to whether we want to eat it or not.
Only then, when the fear of loosing you and loosing face come into play, only then do they give in.
So along with the language barrier came the stubbornness to see something for what it is and the reluctance to listen.
I know, as I’ve dated my fair share of the bad western ones!
So I’m hoping many western women have had wonderful relationships with Thai men and have not experienced any of the issues commonly found in Western/Thai unions that I am about to discuss.
They will send you “back off” vibes and then because you don’t want to keep trying to be friends with someone that thinks badly of you, they see your lack of friendliness as cementing their suspicion which makes them think they were right and you really were trying to steal their man. In my experience with my jealous Thai guy, if I so much as smiled near another man I would spend hours trying to explain something I didn’t even remember doing.
He became instantly angry saying that he basically lived off them as a child and he was fine.The only ring I could think of was that of alarm bells. Now this does not usually come to light until a bit later in your Thai relationship.